| Location | Skegness |
| Age | 24 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 13/11/1982 |
| Date of Death | 17/08/2007 |
| Visitors | 9,519 since 07/02/2008 |
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Just to let you all know the walk went ahead on August 17th and 84 people walked with us in Nicks memory i will let you know the amount we raised when all sponsor money is in. We would like to thank all of you and thank goodness the sun shone for us as soon as we set off.I have put all the pictures on this site from the day so have a look at them.I am sure Nick was looking down on us all and he knows the ones who care, anyway thanks again
BUTTERFLY HOSPICE BOSTON
WE ARE TRYING TO RAISE £50,000 TO SPONSOR A ROOM IN NICKS NAME AT THE NEW HOSPICE THAT THEY ARE BUILDING IN BOSTON.WHEN NICK WAS DIAGNOSED WITH CANCER WE HAD TO TRAVEL TO LINCOLN EVERY DAY WHICH WAS VERY HARD AND EVEN HARDER IF YOU HAVE TO USE PULIC TRANSPORT.NONE OF US KNOW WHEN WE OR OUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY MAY BE IN NICKS POSITION SO IT IS AT TIMES LIKE THAT YOU REALISE HOW INSUFFICIENT OUR CANCER CARE IS IN LINCOLNSHIRE.UNFORTUNATLY IT IS DOWN TO ALL OF US TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT AS THE NHS WON'T.THE AREA THIS HOSPICE COVERS IS 290,000 PLUS PEOPLE IF WE CAN GET 5,000 PEOPLE TO EACH RAISE £10.00 WE WILL HAVE THE MONEY.THE AIM IS TO DO THE WALK EVERY YEAR TO KEEP NICKS MEMORY ALIVE IF WE CAN GET ENOUGH SUPPORT ON THIS FIRST ONE.I THANK YOU ALL IN ADVANCE FOR ALL THE CARE AND SUPPORT YOU SHOWED US DURING NICKS ILLNESS AND HOPEFULLY ON THIS VENTURE TOO.
IF ANYONE WOULD LIKE TO SEND DONATIONS PLEASE MAKE THE CHEQUE OUT TO THE BUTTERFLY HOSPICE TRUST. THESE CAN BE SENT TO SANDI ADAMS, 17 GROSVENOR ROAD, SKEGNESS, LINCS, PE25 2DB. THANK YOU.
Nick Adams was 24 when he died and he died from kidney cancer on the 17th August 2007. He used to run a local pub called the MARS bar which he ran with his dad Symon Adams and his mum Sandi Adams. He lived in the flat above it he was lovely and had room in his heart for everyone. He was very kind and caring. It kills me to thing that someone so special who never did anything wrong could be took away from us so early in life.
The only thing that makes me feel better about Nick's death is that he touched so many people. We spent a lot of time raising money to get the drugs he need to keep him with us longer. Now we are raising money for Kidney Cancer UK and projects which were connected to his illness. Nick was very brave even when facing something that people a lot older than him can't cope with.
I know how much everyone misses him especially my mum and dad. He ment so much to so many people our grandparents who he was so close to and his friends especially storm and alex who spent so much time with him before and during his illness. My daughter Charlie will always know who her uncle was and how great he was. I'm just glad he got to see her before he died. I will always love Nick and I will never feel better about it but I'm just glad I've got the rest of my family to lean on.
my son
sandi adams (mother)
Nick was my son and where do you start to try to tell anyone what that means to me.Unless you knew him you cant understand what kind of person he was.He was like a bright light that shone continually and drew everyone to him.Before he got the cancer he thought that life was for ever and he lived hard played hard and helped anyone he could.When we found out he was going to die i didnt know how we could carry on but he dealt with it like anything else he did by putting others first.No one can imagine what pain he went through as the disease progressed and ravaged every part of him but he fought for his life for our sakes.We were always close but in those last few months we spent more quality time than most people do in their whole lives and i will always be grateful for that time.He died the day after my birthday which i'm sure he was holding out for and he was in my arms when he slipped away.Words are not enough to say how much i miss him he was my rock and my best friend as well as my son but i know he is pain free now and that is more important than my loss so untill we meet again i will have to make do with memories of what a wonderful person he was my son nick
MY LAD
SYMON ADAMS (DAD)
NICK WAS MY SON , WHO I MISS VERY MUCH HE DIED OF KIDNEY CANCER AT THE AGE OF 24 .i GAVE UP MY JOB TO LOOK AFTER HIM FOR ABOUT A YEAR AND IT WAS SO HORRIBLE AND PAINFUL TO WATCH HIM BE SICK AND IN LOTS OF PAIN ALL THE TIME AND I COULD DO NOTHING ABOUT IT I FELT SO HELPLESS IF I COULD HAVE CHANGED PLACES WITH HIM I WOULD HAVE AND STILL NOW IF HE COULD COME BACK I WOULD TAKE HIS PLACE.NICK WAS AVERY STRONG LAD HE DID WELL TO GET AS FAR AS HE DID BECAUSE I WOULD HAVE GIVEN UP LONG BEFORE HE DID.LIFE IS NOT THE SAME WITHOUT HIM IT DOESNT SEEM REAL THAT I WILL NEVER TALK TO HIM OR SEE HIM AGAIN.THE ONLY THING I HAVE LEFT ARE MEMORIES OF HIM.NICK HAD ALOT OF FRIENDS WHO MISS HIM ALSO HE HAD ALOT OF TIME FOR OTHER PEOPLE AND WAS VERY CLOSE TO IS MUM SANDI
NICK MISS YOU LOADS SON LOTS OF LOVE DAD XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX WE WILL MEET AGAIN SOON
Anyone visiting this site whether they knew Nick or not is welcome to add a message or light a candle thank you.
For all the seeds of love You helped sow
And for all the times You helped them grow
For all the joy You brought to me
And for all the fun of your company
For all those flowers You carefully chose
For each and every carnation or rose
For all the drawings You did for me
And little notes You left for me to see
For all the times You sang a song
For your joyful chatter as we walked along
For all the stories and poems You did write
And for all the laughter each day and night
For all the kisses and cuddles You shared
And for all the times You showed You cared
For all the rainbows you brought after a storm
And for all the memories that now keep me warm
For all You did each and every day
And for all Your love along the way
For all the grey skies You made blue
Thank You Nick, this rose is for You
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Your presence we miss,
Your memory we treasure,
Loving you always,
Forgetting you never.
No farewell words were spoken,
No time to say goodbye,
You were gone before we knew it,
And only God can tell us why.
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Angela (Christopher-John Rowe) Mum
We are connected, my child and I,
by an invisible cord not seen by the eye.
It’s not like the cord that connects us at birth,
this cord can’t be seen by any on earth.
This cord does its work right from the start,
it binds us together, attached by the heart
I know that it’s there, though no one can see
this invisible cord, from my child to me.
The strength of this cord,
it’s hard to describe,
it can’t be destroyed, it can’t be denied.
It’s stronger than any cord man could create;
it withstands the test, can hold any weight.
And though you are gone and you’re not here with me,
the cord is still there though no one can see.
It pulls at my heart, I am bruised, I am sore,
but this cord is my lifeline as never before.
I’m thankful that God connects us this way,
a mother and child…Death can’t take it away.
love as always mumxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
We'll only remember the good things
Like the day when our baby was born.
How he filled all our lives with such pleasure,
Never knowing that now we would mourn.
We'll only remember the good days,
Like the day when he ran to our arms
And he flashed his big smile so endearing
And displayed his unique baby charms.
We'll only remember the good things
Like the presents he wrapped with his love
And presented his heart to his parents
Like a gift straight from heaven above.
We'll only remember the fun times
When our family would gather as one,
And our laughter would fill all our household
At the antics of him, our dear son.
So today though we mourn at his passing
And we wipe sorrow's tears from our eyes,
We'll remember this son whom God gave us
And brought so much joy to our lives.
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Love and God Bless, Gail
Hi sweet, i have just been leaving messages on everyone elses sites so thought i had better leave you one.I hope you are happy wherever you are, just got through your first anniversary and wont be long till your birthday. Can you believe you would of been 26 this november by the time i was 26 i had been married twice and had 2 kids you never even got to get engaged.I suppose you know we still have your anniversary cards up i can't seem to take them down daft isn't it.Gemma still hasn't had the baby wish she would hurry up i often wonder if you know about all the things that have happened since you went.I like to think that you are around us and aware all the changes.
I miss you so much do you know how often i have wanted to talk to you even if it is just your photograph.Anyway going to get off now to bed so love you loads and loads hugs and kisses mum xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
The bonds of love that bind us all never fade away
But carry on, stay ever strong, forever and a day.
What we have shared connects us, bonded soul to soul,
And love’s ties warm and cheer us, though life’s trials take their toll.
Even when we physically are no longer there,
Our spirits and our souls live on, constant in their care;
For family ties are forged with love and sharing over time,
Not just one life but many, till we reach the light sublime.
We all act out our many plays; we live out many themes,
We learn so much through sharing, caring, following our dreams
Until the day comes when we find that it’s our time to go,
To stretch our wings on different planes, find other ways to grow.
While waiting there we work and learn, living in the light,
Until that unknown, glorious day, when we will all unite
Once more with love with those we’ve known so many times before,
Eventually to reach the stage when partings are no more.
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Sending love always, Gail
hi nick sorry i haven't been on for ages but they have changed the site and had to sort mum's out first. miss you loads wish i could talk to you even if its just for ten minutes. love you loads speak to you soon x
Hi Sandi
I am so pleased the walk was a success. Had a feeling it would be! You got a lovely day for it to. I don't know where my head is at, but just clicked that the walk was on the 17th Aug as it was Nicks anniversary then and a year exactly. What a lovely way to remember Nick. Have a sneaky feeling he was watching with pride. Dannys is the 9th Sept. They are both so close together.
I can't rem if i told you, but Mark and i bought a static caravan, in Pettycur Bay, overlooking the beach. Its a lovely place. Each caravan has a place on the hill overlooking the water and we go there quite a lot now and sit out on the decking and watch the sail boats, surfers ect and take our dog long walks along the beach (hes a springer spaniel who thinks hes a dolphin! Just loves the sea!). We have taken up wind surfing at the grand old age of 40. Its a real adrenalin rush (think we are morphing into a pair of old hippies!). At night we sit out with s glass of wine and watch the sun set and Edinburgh all lit up across the water. Its become our sanctuary. Our friends also come up a lot (really good facilities, theres a hotel on site with great entertainment, a restaurant, pool, sauna, gym, golf ect). We stay up there about 4 nights a week and so i am only on the GTS site a couple of times a week now when i am back home.
Well, hope all is well with you Sandi and the family. Will say night night now as i have rambled on enough!!! Sending all our love, always
Gail
Sweet dreams Nick.
I love you son with a permanence
That will endure the passing years.
I love you with a joyfulness
That subdues all doubts and fears.
I love you with an honesty
That was sown within my heart.
I love you with the calm belief
That we will never truly part.
I love you with a confidence
No earthly force can sever.
I love you with the certainty
That I’ll cherish you forever.
I love you with the humbleness
Of one who has been blessed.
I love you with the reverence
Of all that word suggests.
I love you with a tenderness
That time cannot reverse.
I love you son with a feeling
That poets cannot put to verse.
I borrowed this off Gails site i thought how lovely it was xx
Hi Nick,
i have just read nans letter to you and thought i would like to add my penny's worth. I feel in every way what nan says, you are such a grand grandson.We went to the walk on sunday and got talking to Stewart and James who were both there. It's nice to know their both still thinking of you.
We are off to do the stall now, to try to get some monet for your room in the new hospice.Love you foe ever and missing you more than ever see you later
love Grandad xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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